Originally Posted by
GoktimusPrime
Different people like to learn martial arts for different reasons. Some people just like to learn it as a fun competitive sport, others like to learn it as an "art form", others like to learn it to health/fitness, and others like to learn it for "fighting." Some like to learn it for a combination of reasons and there are a variety of different martial arts schools out there that cater for these different needs. Everyone's entitled to their personal preferences... but when the GKR rep came to my door I clearly and explicitly told her that my primary interest in learning martial arts is for self defence. She asked me if I was interested in any of the other reasons, and I said no. On that premise she then assured me that GKR was absolutely suited to my needs... so far, I'm finding that it's not. :rolleyes:
Different strokes for different blokes... I get it, that's fine. I don't expect every school to teach martial arts for self defence nor do I expect every martial artist to be learning for that reason. But I think people should at least be upfront and honest about what their school is teaching. If a person joins a martial art that's geared toward being more of a "hobby art" rather than a "fighting art," then that school ought to be upfront and honest about it. That's why I respect the Sunday Sensei, because he _was_ upfront and honest with me. He openly admits that GKR isn't ideal for self defence/fighting. If only the sales rep was as honest as him... I wouldn't have bothered signing up and wasting my money on something that doesn't suit my needs. :( In education we say "the right course for the right student," i.e. there isn't one subject that's "better" or "worse" than another... it depends on the individual student.