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Everyone I know says "...and I" in the correct context. Either way, we're both just being anecdotal, which is a weak form of evidence. The fact is that "...and me" is only used in English when referring to yourself as the direct object to a verb or preposition. So I also hear people say "...and me" as well, but in that correct context. There's nothing wrong with saying, "and me" when used correctly, which is more likely how you would hear English speakers using it. "I" is a subject pronoun whereas "me" is an object pronoun.
Subject pronoun: "I want to buy more Transformers." correct!
Object pronoun: "Me want to buy more Transformers." incorrect!
Subject pronoun: "You and I collect Transformers." correct!
Object pronoun: "You and me collect Transformers." incorrect!
Subject pronoun: "Jetfire told I to transform." incorrect!
Object pronoun: "Jetfire told me to transform." correct!
Subject pronoun: "Between you and I, Michael Bay is a cinematic genius." incorrect!
Object pronoun: "Between you and me, Michael Bay is a cinematic genius." correct! (except for the thing about Bay)
Subject pronoun: "Sideswipe and I are twins." correct!
Object pronoun: "Sideswipe and me are twins." incorrect!
Subject pronoun: "The Space Bridge transported the Dinobots and I to Cybertron." incorrect!
Object pronoun: "The Space Bridge transported me and the Dinobots to Cybertron." correct!
How to tell?
This is what I often tell my ESL students; the same rule with subject and object pronouns consistently applies whether you're talking about just yourself or including others. Test and see how the sentence sounds with just yourself; if it works with just yourself then it's correct, otherwise it's wrong. This is called "reducing the subject" (to just the first person).
Comparative Examples
Using the object pronoun...
- "Me and my friends played Transformers Devastation."
Now reduce the subject and see how that sounds...
- "Me played Transformers Devastation."
If it sounds wrong with only yourself, then it's wrong with anyone else. So let's try the subject pronoun:
- "My friends and I played Transformers Devastation."
Now reduce the subject and see how that sounds...
- "I played Transformers Devastation."
Further examples...
- "Me and friends watched Transformers."
"Me watched Transformers."
- "My friends and I watched Transformers."
"I watched Transformers."
etc.
As mentioned before, there's no precedent for most Cybertronians to confuse the use of subject and object pronouns. It appears to be entirely out of character. And bear in mind that they're not even really speaking English, but rather a Cybertronian language, and it's massively unlikely (borderline impossible) that an alien language would happen to share the same rules of pronoun declension as Modern English. Many closely related West Germanic languages (of which English is a member) share the same rules as English.
e.g. the 5 first person pronoun declensions in German are: ich (nominative), mich (accusative), mir (dative), meiner (genitive) and mein (possessive). And modern European grammar has become significantly simplified since the fall of Rome. The grammatical structure of Classical European languages was far more complex than that of Modern European languages. For example, English only has one possessive adjectival first person pronoun; "my" (e.g. "This is my Transformer."). Latin has lots!
meus (magister meus optimus = "Optimus is my teacher")
meum (et quod venturum est et scietis quia nomen meum est Megatron cum dedero vindicatam meam super vos = "And you shall know my name is Megatron when I lay my vengeance upon you")
mea (potesta mea omnia est; vinci absurdum est = "My power is everything; defeat is absurd!")
meae (cathedra mea, regulae meae" = "my chair, my rules")
meam (vocem meam audit = "(whomever) hears my voice")
mihi (mens mihi camera ludaficabilis = "The mind is my playpen")
meo (meo in negotio, amici non sunt, suspecti tantum sunt = "In my business, there are no friends, only suspects")
meis (ploratus ululatusque meis auribus musica sunt = "Cries and screams are music to my ears")
As you can see, ancient languages were far more complicated than Modern languages (although more precise)! I've only listed 7 different versions of "my" in Latin. English only has ONE per declension. e.g. there is only one way to say "I," or "me," or "my" etc.