Quote Originally Posted by Hereticpoo
Hypothetical

Riddle me this;

Your well into the relationship, its serious.

She says "I don't want you to buy anymore TF's, its me or them"

Do you:

A) Stare at her blankly, then casually pick up your phone, call Kyle and say "Do you want to go TF shopping and then maybe a strip club"

or

B) Give up your TF's, Arc weld a shackle to your neck, and ask her to take you shopping for groceries.

Only the tough questions around here!
...or ask her why she wants you to stop collecting and negotiate from there. My wife's main objection to my collecting is that it does cost a lot of money. So I budget myself carefully so that we don't end up living off instant noodles. So long as it never gets that bad I'm giving her less of an excuse to complain about it.

Basically so long as your hobby doesn't effect your partner in a direct detrimental way, then I don't see the big deal about it.