Bought a MISB Classic Tracks from johnb79.2008.
Actual postage costs: $7.60
Cost of Bx2 mailer: $2.40
Total shipping costs: $10
Shipping charge listed (which I presumed was him covering himself with an broad estimate): $45 - 450% of the actual shipping costs (a $35 "handling fee").
In addition to seller's poor attitude and terrible customer service, they are being incredibly difficult in terms of doing the ethical thing and refunding the excess - giving me the choice between either 50% of the shipping costs or returning the figure.
Then again, I shouldn't be surprised - even the eBay representative I spoke to over the phone on the matter, commented on his terrible attitude after seeing the sellers messages to me.
In fact, I think the most recent message says it all.
UPDATE:
When I raised the issue with him, he tried to weasel his way out of it over the course of 5 messages - at first trying to hide behind the listed shipping costs (as if they negate his contract with eBay when he listed the item - rather than his contract negating the charges), then insisting on either the return or only giving back 50% of the shipping costs (still a $12 "handling" fee), and even playing the victim at one point. I then drew a line in the sand- asking for the fourth and final time:
As I was tired of his weaselling BS, I added:Are you going to refund the excess $35 which you charged in direct breach of eBay terms of use,or are you refusing to?
I got a weaselling response back, so I responded saying that in light of my last message to him and his response to me, I was reasonably considering his most recent response to me to be a refusal to honour eBay TOU and would be taking further action.Just so we're clear, any response other than you agreeing to do the ethical thing here and refund the excess shipping, I will consider to be a refusal to do so.
This was his last message to me:
(bolding emphasis mine)I tell u what I'll do: I'll offer u a 50% discount OR you may, at your cost return the item to me (eBay's rules, not mine) AND I will not invoice you an additional $60 for the time of mine you have taken.
I'm not even going to dignify it with a response.
Update 2:
Well it seems he wasn't too happy with my negative feedback - a comment of:
I'm basing assessment of his reaction on the following message I received from him:Contemptous attitude, terrible customer service, charged $35 "handling fee".
Can't believe u left negative feedback - what a dirty keyboard warrior u really are. A snivelling grubby coward. Typical scum Aussie