A big big lesson i learnt

[Pulse]

Thought I might share what's been happening to me lately regarding a 2nd girl who lives about 30 minutes away from me who incidently found me through Myspace.

About a month ago, she found me & immediately began with the PM's (wanting to know absolutely everything about me). Now to me, she's just a Myspace "Friend". But these constant questions just don't seem to be stopping. She wants to know absolutely everything about me. What I look like? What I do with myself? Do I have a G/F, Wife, Kids? What did I do with my day? Honestly, it's just so bloody annoying. Why should I tell her all this stuff?

I believe I've figured out just why she wants to know all this stuff about me - She must like me. But the thing is, I don't like her in that way at all. The thing is... I haven't got it in me to tell her that she's being so bloody intrusive on my personal life. Due to the fact that she lives so close, I have a feeling that eventually she's gonna want to meet up in the real world. Honestly, I have no desire to meet her at all. All she knows about me is what I've got in my profile combined with brief bits & pieces that I reveal in answering her PM's.

How do I get out of this weird Myspace Relationship? Even though I've got no actual pics of me on my profile, Why would she be that into me? I'm not interested in her even one iota. I don't know where this thing with her is gonna go but I'm afraid that she's getting mixed signals.

Has anyone else experienced this kind of thing before?

Bloody Hell, there are some people here who are (at the moment) sick of girls while I'm basically beating one of them off with a stick.

[kup]

Thought I might share what's been happening to me lately regarding a 2nd girl who lives about 30 minutes away from me who incidently found me through Myspace.

About a month ago, she found me & immediately began with the PM's (wanting to know absolutely everything about me). Now to me, she's just a Myspace "Friend". But these constant questions just don't seem to be stopping. She wants to know absolutely everything about me. What I look like? What I do with myself? Do I have a G/F, Wife, Kids? What did I do with my day? Honestly, it's just so bloody annoying. Why should I tell her all this stuff?

I believe I've figured out just why she wants to know all this stuff about me - She must like me. But the thing is, I don't like her in that way at all. The thing is... I haven't got it in me to tell her that she's being so bloody intrusive on my personal life. Due to the fact that she lives so close, I have a feeling that eventually she's gonna want to meet up in the real world. Honestly, I have no desire to meet her at all. All she knows about me is what I've got in my profile combined with brief bits & pieces that I reveal in answering her PM's.

How do I get out of this weird Myspace Relationship? Even though I've got no actual pics of me on my profile, Why would she be that into me? I'm not interested in her even one iota. I don't know where this thing with her is gonna go but I'm afraid that she's getting mixed signals.

Has anyone else experienced this kind of thing before?

Bloody Hell, there are some people here who are (at the moment) sick of girls while I'm basically beating one of them off with a stick.

If you never met her how can she be so infatuated with you? I don't understand.

Anyway the best thing to do would be lay her off gently. Just politely tell her that you don't have the time to constantly be answering her messages. If she continues do so again and then ignore any of the following messages.

Eventually she will get bored of the lack of attention and move on.

[TheDirtyDigger]

Thought I might share what's been happening to me lately regarding a 2nd girl who lives about 30 minutes away from me who incidently found me through Myspace.

About a month ago, she found me & immediately began with the PM's (wanting to know absolutely everything about me). Now to me, she's just a Myspace "Friend". But these constant questions just don't seem to be stopping. She wants to know absolutely everything about me. What I look like? What I do with myself? Do I have a G/F, Wife, Kids? What did I do with my day? Honestly, it's just so bloody annoying. Why should I tell her all this stuff?

I believe I've figured out just why she wants to know all this stuff about me - She must like me. But the thing is, I don't like her in that way at all. The thing is... I haven't got it in me to tell her that she's being so bloody intrusive on my personal life. Due to the fact that she lives so close, I have a feeling that eventually she's gonna want to meet up in the real world. Honestly, I have no desire to meet her at all. All she knows about me is what I've got in my profile combined with brief bits & pieces that I reveal in answering her PM's.

How do I get out of this weird Myspace Relationship? Even though I've got no actual pics of me on my profile, Why would she be that into me? I'm not interested in her even one iota. I don't know where this thing with her is gonna go but I'm afraid that she's getting mixed signals.

Has anyone else experienced this kind of thing before?

Bloody Hell, there are some people here who are (at the moment) sick of girls while I'm basically beating one of them off with a stick.

It's really me. *waves girly like*

[Pulse]

If you never met her how can she be so infatuated with you? I don't understand.

Anyway the best thing to do would be lay her off gently. Just politely tell her that you don't have the time to constantly be answering her messages. If she continues do so again and then ignore any of the following messages.

Eventually she will get bored of the lack of attention and move on.

In order to try to throw her off my trail, I've been talking about things that I know she won't be interested in (eg. TF's & Ironman). Nothing's worked so far...

It's really me. *waves girly like*

Oh Sh#t!

If you guys don't believe that she's real, PM me & I'll give you her Myspace Page . But don't ask me for S's page, I'm having way too much fun with that whole thing .

[roller]

i have had 2 crazy girls like that

1 lived 5 doors up, every day she'd bug me with stupid questions or talk nonsense.

she got a mutual friend to come round one day and tell me that she liked me.

To get rid of her i just kept talking about tfs and other stuff i like, it took months but she finally got the hint. Try and push political or environmental views, thats always a turn off

[Kyle]

In order to try to throw her off my trail, I've been talking about things that I know she won't be interested in (eg. TF's & Ironman). Nothing's worked so far...

To get rid of her i just kept talking about tfs and other stuff i like, it took months but she finally got the hint. Try and push political or environmental views, thats always a turn off

TF is a repellent not potent enough?!?! Amazing...

I don't even have to mention TF, and girls keep their distance form me.

[turtle boy]

You would be surprised. Out hunting one Saturday, and came across a Ultimate Bumble Bee... (still meny there if any one wants one) I told a mate how crappy they were supposed to be, just the mention of the name Bumble Bee brings all kinds of crazy girls around.... This was one instance where i was looking for a movie 08 deluxe Bumbles, asking some guy who worked in the target if he had seen any floating around... he told me all there was was the Ultimate.. Then some i dunno like 16 year old says I have all the BB toys... i said.... oh yes. have you got a barricade as well, i'm actually looking for him atm.. What she said next was the final straw. "is that the cop car one? no i only like bumble bee. i asked if she even knew who the others were, she said yes. theres the truck one.. prime something... Eh.. it's almost gotten to mainstream for me.. *walks off in disgust*

[kup]

In order to try to throw her off my trail, I've been talking about things that I know she won't be interested in (eg. TF's & Ironman). Nothing's worked so far...



Oh Sh#t!

If you guys don't believe that she's real, PM me & I'll give you her Myspace Page . But don't ask me for S's page, I'm having way too much fun with that whole thing .

If she is that infatuated with you, she will talk about anything with you even if she has no interest in it. I have seen it before, they 'adapt' to your likes and dislikes but do not personally share them they just pretend. These sort of relationships usually end up the worse so its best just not to engage her in any sort of conversation at all. Just provide a brief but definite response that you are not interested and that's it.

[Kyle]

*walks off in disgust*

I'd do the same.

I have seen it before, they 'adapt' to your likes and dislikes but do not personally share them they just pretend.

That's pretty scary...

[Borgeman]

5 bucks says its a man

George