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    Default The Parenting Thread

    This thread is for the discussion of parenting; to pool together the collective knowledge and experience of members who are already parents and perhaps assist those of us who are aspiring to become parents in the future.

    The following is an article from "Sydney's Free Child", a free magazine for parents published by Web Child.

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    Many parents in Australia are raising their children to speak two or more languages, writes Klay Lamprell.

    Dinner conversation att he Soave household could be a little confusing if you only speak English. Italian-born Alex Soave and her German-born husband Alexander are raising their children, Leon, Oliver and Penelope, to be trilingual. "I only ever speak Italian to them and Alexander only ever speaks German. The children speak all three languages to each other, depending on the situation."

    Alex says that she and Alexander used the languages of their different heritages from birth with their children, now aged six, four and two. "We want our children to speak easily with their family overseas, some of whom don't speak English, and we want them to be culturally aware."

    According to British linguist David Graddol, parents who raise their children to be multilingual are not only teaching cultural sensitivity, they are also providing an employment advantage. In his comprehensive report on the future of the English language, English Next, Graddol says that the majority of the world's population is already multilingual. Speaking English and at least one other language is fast becoming the norm. He comments that young people in countries like Australia, whose educational system does not strongly promote multilingual fluency, "face a bleak economic future."

    Multilingualism advocate Professor Michael Clyne, author of Australia's Language Potential, says that in addition to employment opportunities, numerous studies point to the cognitive benefits of raising children to be multilingual. "Children who develop more than one language early develop an extended range of ways of understanding language," comments Clyne. "They are more versed in the principles of language and ultimately may do better in English than monolingual children."

    Clyne, who was born and raised bilingually in Australia and raised his child to be bilingual, says that monolingual children and bilingual children develop different ways of understanding representational symbols. "If you ask bilingual four to six year olds whether you could call a dog a cow, tehy are likely to think, 'There could be another language in which a dog is called a cow.' Monolingual children will tend to think it is just a silly idea. Bilingual children, when they can't express something in one language, switch to the other language, so they become more divergent thinkers.

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    Alex and Alexander are essentially practising a method of raising children multilingually known as "une-personne; une langue" ("one person, one language") system as per the studies of Maurice Grammont and Jules Ronjat (Reference). I've personally seen it work with some parents and their kids. My wife and I have discussed how we could apply this theory to raise our own future child(ren?) trilingually.

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    The Prof. Roller Academy of parenting and social engineering says on their homepage:


    "if your going to be naughty your gonna get whacked!"

    its worked for the past 2000+ years, you gotta teach em discipline boy!

    None of this namby pamby negotiations or bribes of sweets

    1. teach your kids another language young, dont deprive them of being excluded in the playground gangs, if you dont speak the lingo, your out!

    2. Make sure your kid knows everything about modern technology, if not, little Timmy wont be a successful lawyer,politician,business tycoon

    3.Even if your kid is in the wrong, stand by them and claim that by saying otherwise is an affront to your parenting skills, then they'll let joey off and issue you an apology

    4. Being bossman No.1 is crucial in this era. Hold the most extravagant birthday party-doesn't matter if there only 2 yrs old, you will wow the other parents and may eventually be permitted into the country club.

    Finally, always mix with the right crowd

    oh, and get your in laws to help. this way you avoid changing smelly nappies-this enables you more time to play with TFs


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    bi-lingual if possible.

    have the in-laws or parents nearby. the quality of childcare is detoriating.

    was talking to a friend's wife. she had started toilet training once she came back from the hospital her daughter. make those sounds. some babies are naturally talented that way. she said she is a bad mother.

    men, be prepare to do the night-shift if bottle-fed. may get away with 1 feed during the night if you time it well.

    the first sh-t always smells the worst!
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    Quote Originally Posted by roller
    The Prof. Roller Academy of parenting and social engineering says on their homepage:


    "if your going to be naughty your gonna get whacked!"

    its worked for the past 2000+ years, you gotta teach em discipline boy!
    I basically agree with that - though not literally. I'm an advocate of Choice Reality as the basis of behaviour management. It's all about teaching responsibility.

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    such thinking...can only lead to the Dark side of the force

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    Ahhh if only it was that easy....
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    i just wing it as every day is a new adventure...

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    Quote Originally Posted by The_Damned View Post
    i just wing it as every day is a new adventure...
    Now theres someone with a sense of adventure!

    Seems you can try to program or manipulate your kids into becoming whatever ya want them too. Doesnt always work though. I think its just better to encourage them at whatever they want to do and try to give good guidance.

    In all truth toys are crack for kids- that doesnt mean they dont get any but i see much better results/ outcomes from giving my kids good life experiences and encouraging them to know that the world is their oyster and will be what they make it.

    I think Bartrim mentioned his son enjoys going out and helping him with dad stuff- these are the experiences that your child will remember (and hopefully cherish) for the rest of his/ her life.

    Oh and while we are on the topic of advice- let it be know that two kids are easy and three are not.

    Ill let you know what having four is like in July!
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    Yer a suckah for punishment. <friendly.ribbing>

    Great to hear such positive comments from people's experience as parents, and very heartwarming to see Bartrim beam with parental pride. Your son sounds like he has an amazing sense of duty and responsibility at such a young age. And you _should_ be proud... in my experience as a teacher I've learnt that in the majority of cases, kids are the way they are because of their parents.

    Crap parents = crap kids, Good parents = good kids

    And kids are usually much easier to teach when they have good supportive parents who instill them with a strong sense of self-responsibility. So thumbs up to you Bartrim and all other parents who are doing this for their kids! If more parents were like you guys, my job would be a LOT easier.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoktimusPrime View Post
    Yer a suckah for punishment. <friendly.ribbing>

    Crap parents = crap kids, Good parents = good kids

    And kids are usually much easier to teach when they have good supportive parents who instill them with a strong sense of self-responsibility.
    Youve hit the nail; on the head with that comment!

    Ive got a few teacher mates that would agree with you on that one totally!

    And yes im a sucker for punishment and yes i have a lot more grey hair now but its worth it!
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