This isn't really what I was talking about. I was more talking about the need for constant updates on a pre-ordered item that was pre-ordered a number of months prior, and has only just started to come out globally. what you've described above is retail misrepresentation which is an entirely different thing.
I'm talking about:
Where a local seller is packing and sending probably every day and some people are receiving items before others have been sent/notified that theirs is in the mail. when the expected date on the sellers website is a month long period as it was when the item was first listed for sale. When the delivery window has not been specified as anything more than that month, expecting updates telling you when your item will be shipped within that month is a bit much. a person has already waited for at least a month or more for an item after pre-order, another week or two knowing that it is due in a 3 to 4 week period doesn't warrant hassling a retailer for updates. I don't think. All it's going to do is slow them down sending parcels.
If a retailer sends out an email saying they are shipping item x over the following 2 weeks, it's not informative, that's already clear from the fact that people are starting to receive item x from them.
If the retailer sits down and figures out when they will be sending item x to each person who ordered it and sends every single person a personalised email, it's a huge waste of time. Especially when they would have to do this for their entire inventory if they did it for just one item.
It's unfortunate that some people seem to not be receiving notification until their package arrives, that may be an issue with an email server somewhere. or an actual lack of communication, either from the supplier or the courier company. It doesn't seem particularly common from what I've been reading. Even if a notification isn't received, it's a bit silly to have something sent to a location you may or may not be at to receive a parcel.
anyway, I didn't really intend to start a thread full of cranky, I just had to get that off my chest, maybe this is a good place for that. or I should have just made a vent in the vents thread.