Thoughts on Neutral and negative feedback on Ebay?

[millhouse]

I'd try and contact the seller. If you get a partial refund, leave neutral feedback. If you get nowhere, or he insists sending it back at your expense, lodge a claim with PayPal and leave negative feedback.

[Jetfire in the sky]

E-bay is red hot on "item not as described" purchases now and you have a very strong case. I'm pretty sure if you want your money back you need to start a dispute in the correct drop down option and the seller has to pay return shipping, alternatively you can contact the seller and try to resolve it amicably and perhaps gaining a partial refund would be best but this has recently been limited by e-bay/paypal from personal experience. Another way they are trying to stop people giving them millions of dollars in fees every quarter. Your situation is weighted heavily in the buyers favour.
E-bay do seem to change their policies as much as I do undies so this info may be out of date now.

[UltraMarginal]

Not taking postage into account, I think you still got it for a good price.

Having said that, if I were in your shoes I'd probably feel mislead and pretty ticked.

If you don't mind me asking, how much was postage, since you stated that it was less than you were charged. If it was only a dollar or two, I'd say that's fair for time and materials, especially if it was a new package.
If it's more than a few bucks, I think your within your rights to ask for a partial refund of the shipping cost.


I think the cost of postage is a separate issue to the state of the book as well.
I'd take a few photos of the stickers and stamps inside the book and send them to the seller explaining how you feel misled and that if you'd have known the book was in that condition you may not have even bid. you're entitled to something there, see what they say.

On the other hand, apart from that the book looks to be in pretty good nick and the story pages, which are the ones that really matter (to me personally) , appear to be fine.
If it's a hard to find book, perhaps you're better off getting a partial refund on the shipping and being happy that you have it at all.

hopefully this has been some useful food for thought.

[Other]

Pitney bowles limited is a shipping company that handles sending things overseas for US Ebay sellers(among other things). The seller sends them the item and they pack it and send it on to you. Not really suss, though not really fair priced and ebay makes it quite tricky for US sellers sending internationally to not have to use them. That said going through them does make life easier for the seller and when the stars align just right you can get a savings on shipping because it wasn't worked out right when invoicing and they have to eat the extra cost

[philby]

thanks for all the comments. it wasn't the smoothest auction, i'm wondering if it was the seller's first time shipping internationally. i didn't click the fine print or details regarding the ebay global shipping thing and i'm not sure if the seller did either. after i paid he sent me a message saying 'i thought you were in australia, paypal is showing a uk address', then i checked my account and my payment split into 2 amounts which didn't match the item/shipping price and only 1 was for the seller so we both freaked out a little haha.

the book in hardcover at least does seem to be fairly expensive and not readily available to international people on amazon and ebay. i ended up winning the auction at 2.75 pounds. i asked him if there were different options for postage as the ebay global shipping option was relatively expensive for the item. he went to the post office and the quote was 8 pounds which was half ebay's price, so i paid 10.75 pounds. the money isn't the issue, if i was to ask for a refund it would basically be compensation for being misled.

he didn't mention the tear or stamps or anything even after i specifically enquired about the wear and condition, just added a couple of photos of the closed book. so aside from the original listing there was a second opportunity to mention the damage and he didn't say anything.

i know it's not much and flicking through the book the rest of it seems fine it's both the principle and also the collector/ocd aspect of every time i look at it i would feel dirty and ripped off haha. there is definitely a part of me that wants to get rid of it and try my luck finding another one. how stupid is that... :/

i think i will send him a message first with a photo and tell him i'm pretty disappointed. i'm not sure if i will ask about the possibility of a refund or wait for him to respond and see if he offers.

[DarkHyren]

I'd definitely contact him and say hey what's up, this has pages missing which while not major (since you say it's just publishers info) I wasn't informed about this.
Generally a decent seller will apologize and offer some compensation for the oversight, but if you're not happy with the reply you can take it a step further through ebay/paypal.
If it gets to that point I would be likely to leave a negative, because while it's not a major damage it's still significantly not as described and if you need to go through the claims system then that's a paddlin'... I mean strike.

[UltraMarginal]

I'd definitely send pictures of the damage and stamps. tell him you feel misled and see what he says.

In response to your actual thread title, which I never actually commented on earlier

If he tries to make amends and sounds genuinely apologetic for not mentioning the stamps and other damage, then in the end I'd probably give a Neutral.

Negatives tend to sting on eBay, especially if it's not an actual business and doesn't have high turnover. He has already done a lot for you by investigating prices at the post office etc. so he has put some effort into being a good seller.