Need some Advice...

[Zaul]

She was supposed to be my best friend, but she dances around the issues too much and listens to friends of hers that have no idea what they are talking about.

I feel emotionally sick to my stomach right now , It's looking like Im going to have to cancel.

It's a shame too, I need a fresh start in life, I want to move out , study, do something with my life, and I thought this was the ticket to do it.

[sanbot]

It's a shame too, I need a fresh start in life, I want to move out , study, do something with my life, and I thought this was the ticket to do it.

I say forget about her. She sounds like bad news. If she values more what her friends are saying then I suspect this will also dictate her actions in a relationship with you. So even if something happens between the two of you, I am certain she will continue to trust her friends more then you. And you will forever be trying to prove to her that your care for her.

Don't let this stop you from moving out and doing the things you want to do. If you can financially do it and you know what you want to do then go for it.

[Deceptic_Optic]

pros and cons bro! pros and cons! Im not saying you should or shouldnt go, im saying analyse it before you move. trust me on this not everything has a fairy tale ending.

[1AZRAEL1]

I'll give you advice from my personal experiences.

I was with this girl, I lived in the Gong, she lived in Parra. Long distant relationship. Kinda sucked. Then an opportunity arose where this guy I knew needed a housemate out in Penrith. I made the snap decision to move. 2 weeks before I was due to move, she dumped me at a concert. I said "F*** it, I'm gonna move anyway!" So I did. A week later I met another girl who is now my fiance and here I am now and couldnt be happier.

Lifes funny like that sometimes.

All I can say is, even if it doesnt work out, just do it for a holiday and see what happens. At least you will know for sure, instead of wondering what might have been.

[Gutsman Heavy]

give it a go, if it doesn't work out you can always club some seals to vent.

[autobreadticon]

with $5000 i would get the Human Size Optimus Prime Statue i always wanted

[Fungal Infection]

I'd cancel and see how she reacts.