I just lost a post that was in response to this. But in short, if you were a mate of mine and were contemplating going, I'd sure as hell chain you up and have a long talk. Hell, I'd beat u up if you were still so convinced you wanted to go. The point is, even if my mate was pissed off with me at least i tried to bloody tell him and did everything in my power to prevent him from doing something this silly. I'd rather have him pissed and angry as opposed to be sitting there telling him yeah you do wahtever.

All the odds here are stacked against you, mate.

Unless as I believe it was Sky Shadow who said u go with the intention of visiting Canada and travelling and only meeting her as part of that trip, don't waste ur time and money. Plenty of women downunder. Plenty of moody women, at that. And if u travel to Canada with the intention of treating it like a holiday there's still plenty to enjoy. Plenty of Canadian women and bars to get around too, I'd imagine. Why limit yourself to one suspect and moody girl?

And tbh I'm can see her friend's pov too. I'd be saying the very same things to her. She hasn't made the commitment to let ppl know about u so until that happens ur wasting ur time. So it cuts both ways. It's hardly a win-win situation if you go over there with her as the centrepiece of your trip.

Don't go. A lot of ppl will say to you its your choice and that is true. But wouldn't u rather hear from someone who isn't sitting on the fence? Those ppl don't have anything invested. They aren't even putting themselves in your shoes and at least trying to say what they'd do. The people who aren't sitting on the fence are at least putting themselves in ur position and making a tough call about what they'd do. The majority of ppl in this thread who have not sat on the fence have told you not to go.

That should speak volumes.