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    Quote Originally Posted by Tober View Post
    This is a good chance to vent, and something I need help with...

    So I have complete ass****s for neighbours in my apartment. They arrived here about 18 months ago, announcing their arrival by kicking a soccer ball off the walls around their apartment - these are single-brick shared/common walls... you get the idea...

    About 9 months or so ago they started making weird noises against the wall I share with them - spraying of aerosoles, running water through a faucet, squeaking tap, sound of a bucket filling up - kinda odd seeing as there shouldn't be a tap there. Also the really abrupt sounds of the clanging of metal pipes and the thumping of various sounds agains the wall like cupboards or a bench.

    I can't really work out what they have done there, but it's extremely invasive and constantly annoying - the pipe clanging and banging anyway. All through the weekends and almost every day before and after work.

    I'm wondering if it might be some sort of...you know... gardening... or maybe not. They were almost constantly at it today when they had guests over.

    They used to play movies or games really loudly late at night too, but they seemed to have stopped that, I think they have had some confrontations with other neighbours already, not sure.

    So... I'm also wondering if anyone has any experience dealing with this sort of thing. As I understand it there are laws forbidding intrusion of peace in another person's living areas. But I'm not completely sure what the paramaters are. Also they shouldn't be able to make any sort of permanent installations without strata consent (I gather). They are owner occupiers too - which would make an actual eviction of any sort really difficult . I essentially own this apartment, although it's in my family's name it is rented in mine.

    Any serious help or advice appreciated.

    And no, I've never actually talked to them.
    I have been experiencing dodgy neighbors too - its a long story and a bit of a long saga but the issue appears to have toned down significantly for now; specially when many of them were booted out.

    Basically this is what the neighbors did which is part of a letter I sent the RE (they were an extended family of Tongans who lived on two ground floor units):

    - Due to them all apparently being relatives, they constantly leave their front doors open during most of the day and can often be seen eating, drinking together outside between their residences in a very noisy manner.

    - They enjoy playing very loud high base music at any hour of the day, particularly early weekend mornings; this becomes worse as they leave the doors open all the time so they can hear their music as they move from one unit to the other (The individual residents do not appear to live in one particular unit but they live in both as they are all one family).

    - They have very little concept concept of hygene and too often they leave garbage from take away food, candy wrappers and even soiled baby nappies just on the ground outside and even in the driveway. It is also not unusual to find dirty plates and dining utensils around the building as they eat outdoors.

    - They treat the whole unit block as if it were part of their own home so the kid's toys are often seen scattered all over the place among other things for weeks at a time.

    - They also like to have loud gatherings outside other people's windows without any consideration to other residents.

    - They allow the children to play with the garbage bins and as a result its very common to see garbage scattered by the wind all over the place.

    - There is very little to no privacy as they allow the children to look through other people's mail - This is the reason why I have a PO Box.

    - They have no consideration or respect at all for other residents as it is apparently believed by them that they can 'rule' the unit block due to their numbers.

    - They like to use my Washing Machine without permission and due to this I have to take measures to prevent them from doing so as well as constantly be checking on it so they don't damage it.

    - They treat the shared laundry and the back area of the building as their own private 'storage' space for the kid's toys, old clothing, etc.

    - They see no problem with sleeping outside under people's windows so its very annoying to hear someone snoring while in my bedroom.

    - The 'extended' family members seem to come and go with some leaving while new ones take their place and as a result I always see different people living in the building causing a security concern.

    Originally this family also occupied a third ground floor residence but one of the units was vacated recently and as a result the 'extended' family members that lived there have divided themselves into their two remaining units. I noticed this because they always leave their doors open and I can see that they sleep on the floor of their living rooms and couches at night.

    In the 6 months or so that I have been living in this unit, I have been very tolerant of this family but things reached boiling point when last Sunday morning some new 'residents' joined the existing ones and decided to play incredibly loud music at 8am. I went to politely ask them to turn down the volume but instead this bloke who I have never seen before but apparently now lives in the units came out and threatened to "Bash" me next time he sees me outside for asking them to turn down the music which he appears to have taken as a 'challenge' to the family's 'authority' over the building.

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    Confronting them did nothing - It only makes things worse and the story above has a sequel confirming that but what did do some good was notifying the real estate of the significant problems they were causing. Apparently the Real Estate was already aware of some issues and was in the process of booting them out when I sent my letter. Only one unit remained with them but they still caused some problems with odd behavior like sleeping on the drive way (pillows, bed sheets and everything)- When I confronted them about this they initiated a shit storm and the Real Estate apparently no longer gave a crap and without their backing you are stuck.

    Due to this I was afraid for my property (car, washing machine, etc) but thankfully they did not do anything but I begun to park my car outside on the street as it makes it harder for them to do anything to it. Its been a couple of months now and nothing bad has happened or strange but I know that as long as they are there its only a matter of time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kup View Post
    Too much to read
    I know the feeling. In my old place, had these really noisy neighbours downstairs.
    Real Estate said they been trying to get em out when we were moving in. We were there for 6 months and they were still there when I left.
    There were street fights, knives, drugs, booze, police... get the idea.

    They finally got kicked out after we left.

    Oh wells, hopefully wont have too much trouble when we move into our house

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    i know whatcha mean kup

    in my Sydney house

    their rabbit, that they let run around the streets, married our rabbit and decided to stay in our yard.

    One of those ruffians just kept barging into our yard, whever they felt like owning the rabbit.

    Fortunately we kept him in a hutch for a week and they thought he was gone.

    But yeah, when i become President of the Republic of Australia i'll put a stop to any misbehaviour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shazam View Post
    I realise you probably don't want to talk to them. But I think that's your first point of call. If that does you no good, you can try going through a mediator (the Fair Trading website has some information on this). If you can prove that your neighbours are doing something wrong you can report it to Strata Management. If their is a concierge you can report it to them as well. I think your last resort is to goto the cops and make a noise complaint. But understand that this kind of complaint is pretty low on their priorities list.
    Quote Originally Posted by STL View Post
    Tober, any legal avenue you want to pursue would take awhile given this is nuisance that we're really talking about. I'd recommend that you contact them as a first port of call, and then if that didn't work, write a formal complaint, then if that doesn't work, follow it up with the relevant authorities. The police will be able to pop around if the times they do this are at ridiculous times of the day - like at night or whatnot. If not, the police should be able to advise you as to how to proceed to take the matter to court. Generally though, the court process takes awhile.
    Thanks guys

    I really dont want to talk to them untill I fully understand what my rights are. And even then I would rather simply hit them with an abatement order or similar at the same time. I gonna have to speak to strata and council apparently.


    Quote Originally Posted by kup View Post
    I have been experiencing dodgy neighbors too - its a long story ... [snip] ... its only a matter of time.
    Sorry to hear about it Truly feral.

    Make sure their kids dont see your TFs

    Quote Originally Posted by roller View Post
    i know whatcha mean kup

    in my Sydney house

    their rabbit, that they let run around the streets, married our rabbit and decided to stay in our yard.

    One of those ruffians just kept barging into our yard, whever they felt like owning the rabbit.

    Fortunately we kept him in a hutch for a week and they thought he was gone.

    But yeah, when i become President of the Republic of Australia i'll put a stop to any misbehaviour.
    Arn't you Emperor of Oz yet?
    Which brings us to where we are today...



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    I know that after a certain time at night you're not allowed to make loud noises that disturb the peace or you can call the police. Back in my undergraduate uni days my friends and I would party on till odd hours of the night (and following morning) and a couple of times we had cops come and tell us to shut up because we were too noisy and neighbours had complained.

    I can't remember what the time is exactly - maybe midnight? But yeah, there are laws regarding not disturbing the peace at certain times; find out what they are and contact your local police if you think those people are in violation of this law.

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