I agree. Other than scalping behaviour (which thoroughly deserves a sharp kick to the janglies), people are under no obligation to help others with their collecting. We're adults now - we can find toys for ourselves. Of course it's a really nice thing to do for your fellow collector and I've often benefitted from having other people spot and pick up stuff for me. But I'm not going to get upset at someone if they find something I want but don't inform me about it or get it for me. It's always good to treat others as you would like to be treated.
