I need to vent!

[gantz]

Aww Killinspoon *HUG*

Dude, keep some hope, perhaps find something to do that you've always wanted too, a thing unrelated to her.

[KillinSpoon]

Well, I have started playing guitar to take my mind off things.
I have figured out that alcohol doesn't help. I woke up in glen waverly yesterday morning sleeping on my jumper...
I'm just glad that I have people on here who have been through the same thing. It sucks that this is my first ever break up, my first love. I feel like you guys can help me through it all. I just wish I could turn time forwards, even just a year and see how I am then. Sometimes I hate being 19... I know that I have to put in the work in order to achieve my final goal and I'm fine with that. But right now, I feel as though everything I have ever done has been for nothing.

Edward Norton Lorenz is my inspiration to continue studying, I want to be like him; forever selfless and family orientated. I have a strange love for mathematics and want to contribute something towards the field. However, at this point in time... I don't even want to get out of bed.

[jazzcomp]

Hey.... at 19, there's so much more things that will happen to you. So many more women that you'll have experiences with. I know you feel like that she's irreplaceable. You won't know that till you have tried to be with others.

Just take some time and if she's with someone else, just think that you let her go to be happy/ier and it really won't work out in the long run anyway.

There were times in your life that are filled by this person. The other times are with others. Girls go for the heartbroken sob story too so use that as well

[Hursticon]

Found out that my ex was cheating on me. Also, she is spending loads of time with this guy already.

I can see who really cared in this relationship now...
It sucks to be me right now

Dude, I know your pain - it's happened to me before too, so I know how you're feeling at the moment... nothing worse than the feeling of betrayal.

It's her loss not yours.

I feel so useless and down at the moment...
I was only ever good to her... But she's been deceiving me, and her parents the whole time.

I'm currently physically ill, I can't eat. Constantly cold... I just want this all to end.

It does suck immensely dude and I'm sorry to hear this - It has always amazed me how easily women are able to float from one relationship to the next but then I remind myself: "They're actually built to do that" - Propagation of the species and what not.

I have a Brother your age who literally went through almost the exact same thing you're going through a couple of months ago and I can say that it will continue to hurt for a while dude but you've just got to keep your mind off of it.
My Brother was lucky as he had his friends there to aid him in coping so I highly advise you to seek the same dude, also, throw yourself into your passions - You like Maths? Then find a way to envelop yourself in it if you really enjoy it.

Take it easy though dude, Alcohol and Drugs are no remedy to the pain - I know, I've been there and it takes a long time to get out of it and it will continue to affect your life in ways you don't see coming.
You've got to remember not to punish yourself as you've done nothing wrong, she is the perpetrator and Karma works in funny yet very just ways.

[gantz]

It does suck immensely dude and I'm sorry to hear this - It has always amazed me how easily women are able to float from one relationship to the next but then I remind myself: "They're actually built to do that" - Propagation of the species and what not.

That is MARVELOUS!!! lol

[Sky Shadow]

It does suck immensely dude and I'm sorry to hear this - It has always amazed me how easily women are able to float from one relationship to the next but then I remind myself: "They're actually built to do that" - Propagation of the species and what not.

Um... Hursticon... men are even more built to do that. A woman can only propagate as many children as she can fit in her single uterus at one given time. Men (particularly rock stars) can propagate many many children in many different uteri at the same time.

[Golden Phoenix]

Um... Hursticon... men are even more built to do that. A woman can only propagate as many children as she can fit in her single uterus at one given time. Men (particularly rock stars) can propagate many many children in many different uteri at the same time.

Actually, they are some theories that would say otherwise.
Primal instincts want both a caring parner and a physicaly able partner they are usually not one and the same.
The typical story being a woman marrying a rich guy while cheating with her personal trainer. She gets a child with physical atributes of the personal trainer while being able to raise it in a stable comfortable environment that the rich guy can provide.

That being said. It comes down to the person.
Some women are bitches. Some guys are doucebags. But they only show that and not what the whole gender is like.

So it means you can go out and be like John West and go for the best.

[Hursticon]

Um... Hursticon... men are even more built to do that. A woman can only propagate as many children as she can fit in her single uterus at one given time. Men (particularly rock stars) can propagate many many children in many different uteri at the same time.

Indeed, Just look at Ramses II (The Great) - 92 years of age and had over 100 kids in his life time.
But these days dude, women dictate who, when, where, why and what with relationships and a Bloke is purely lucky, such as yourself, to be rewarded with finding a long-term partner.

[Vector Prime]

But these days dude, women dictate who, when, where, why and what with relationships and a Bloke is purely lucky, such as yourself, to be rewarded with finding a long-term partner.

Luck? What's luck got to do with it?

Luck is that point in time when opportunity meets preparation.

[Sky Shadow]

Um... Hursticon... men are even more built to do that. A woman can only propagate as many children as she can fit in her single uterus at one given time. Men (particularly rock stars) can propagate many many children in many different uteri at the same time.

Actually, they are some theories that would say otherwise.

There are theories that say a man cannot physically knock up more than one woman at one time?

(I know that a woman can be technically be knocked up by more than one man at once through heteropaternal superfecundation, but that's rare. And awesome.)