Quote Originally Posted by Vector Sigma 13 View Post
I scored a job as a coordinator for an employment firm yesterday- Yay right? Theres good money involved, a car thrown in for good measure. Sounds really good right?

I was also offered some work at a school which i was REALLY excited about doing, less money, no car.

Why do i feel like ive made the wrong decision? Im really down about this- I should be happy.

If i change my mind about the job and take the other one ill be ridiculed by my inlaws, and ill be poor again. I suppose i have to think of the family first.
But it doesnt make me feel any better.
When you have a family you need to make compromises as you need to take into account the collective good. However don't always be influenced by what your in laws say and make your own judgments.

Think of the job as a means to an end - Use the greater income to enjoy life more and benefit your family.