Well Killingspoon, I think you can gather what our collective opinions and advice is, the ball is in your court dude and I know that it is a horribly hard decision that stands before you dude.
Whatever decision you go with man, we'll stand behind you but just make sure you give it some long and hard thought.

*Edit: Just re-reading UltraMarginal's post reminded me of something my Mother always told me, "Follow your Heart, but lead with your Head".


My own 2 cents?: As a person who has always been 'The nice guy' too - Walk away mate, save yourself from prolonged anguish because from my experience the nice guy really does always finish last. <- Hence why I really detest that saying.
Besides, if the 'other guy' doesn't want to be near her either, that actually speaks volumes about her.