It looks like I'm not alone in the uncertain waiting game...
I ordered and paid for UW Dev on Dec. 29, got an email mid Jan. asking me to update my profile with my address, which I did that day. Got a shipping notice on Feb. 4 with a status of 'Processing', which didn't change for two weeks, so I emailed them mid Feb. asking what's happening, they replied asking if I got a shipping notice, I said yes, but the status hasn't changed since the 4th. That's the last I've heard from them, although I did send another email last week expressing my concern for the time it's taking, and I also called AP, who said 'Processing' means they've received a shipping manifest from TFI, but not the actual items.
So yeah, not sure what to do... Do I take their business remodel in my stride and keep waiting, or request a refund... *sigh*